Dr. Harp Seal talks on behavioral disorders

The Quandary and Quagmire of and ex relationship

Dialogue between Patient and Psychiatrist.

Patient Scott; ” Doctor my girlfriend of 8 years just splilt up with me, I’m devastated and can’t function.

Doctor; “That’s interesting, most people would find that pleasing. You are suffering from “EAD” — Which stands for “Excessive abandonment disorder” –Don’t worry Scott, we have medication to make you all better in no time.

Scott: “Doctor also, my mother and two sisters died this week, I can’t get out bed”

Doctor” Scott that is very interesting, most people when they lose 3 immediate family members at the same time are out and about in a week or two. You are suffering from “IBTM” — Which stands for “In Bed Too Much”

Scott; “Lastly Doctor, anytime I see my dog, i feel so relieved and happy”

Doctor; “Scott that is really odd, i don’t like that sound of that. You have “HDD” — which stands for “Happy Dog Disorder” — We have some great medication for that as well.

Scott: Doctor do you realize you suffer from “QD” — Which stands for “Quack Doctor.

Friends, and there you have it, that is why Merck, Pfizer, Eli Lilly and Schering-Plough are cash machines.

See you tonight friends.  It’s just another Happy Monday.  Dr. Harp Seal for Sammy & Family.

Great News from EU on maintains the Sealing Ban; Still questions remain

EU maintains ban on Sealing Industry

Good evening friends.

We hope everyone had a nice weekend. Dr. Harp Seal  & family wanted so share some great news for Harp Seals that was announced on September 8th, 2015 from the Humane Society’s FB Page. This picture also comes from their Facebook page.

Here’s the news below, then we will just make a few comments on it.

“Good news: Today, the European Parliament voted overwhelmingly to strengthen the EU ban on trade in seal products, just days after the European Court of Justice dismissed a final appeal by the sealing industry that sought to annul the ban. This means that a huge market will remain closed to products of commercial sealing!”

That is good news because the Seal Clubbers tried to lift the ban and the EU held their ground.  Dr. Harp Seal did an audio on this a few months back if you remember. Sealing is a dying industry and has been for years. Nobody is buying the Fur anymore because the outrage about the brutality inflicted on these baby seas.  The audio is at the end of this post if you would like to hear it….

We still question three things,

1. Why does Canada still subsidize a dying industry ?

2. Cant Canada just write a check the Seal Clubbers to Not kill the seals so they get their money anyway ? Another words, if Canada is forking up some subsidies for a dying industry to continue, we say, fork up the money and leave the seals alone. Sammy & Family is not understanding that one, we really are not.

3. DrHarpSeal & Family wants to drill this point home; even if the SealingIndustry was booming with record profits, it still should have NEVER been allowed.

If you would like to hear Dr. Harp Seal’s Audio on the Sealing Industry, here’s the link;  https://soundcloud.com/dr-harp-seal/my-recording-145

No lives will go in vain, no pain will go unnoticed. Dr. Harp Seal for Sammy & Family.

It’s a brand new day

Its a new day

Good morning friends.  Its great to be alive on September 12th, 2015.  To make things even better, we have a Saturday here.

We put some color in this picture.  Colors can lift people’s moods, that is scientifically proven. They say yellow and light green lift people’s spirit’s the most.  I can dig that.  As long as its not grey outside  and we are not listening to “Welcome to the Machine” by Pink Floyd, I’m pretty much whistling dixie.

Speaking of music, I spun an Iron Maiden album backwards last night and it told me Donald Trump is part Mexican. Just kidding, i have no feeling for this man bad or good.  His wife does have nice boobs though even though  I’ve Never heard her speak once.

Sorry a little ADHC tangent right there.  OK let’s kick this Saturday off with two positive notions.

  1. The weekends are to rejuvenate, not to ruminate.  What’s done is done, we can pick our baggage up on Monday morning.  The motto of anyone weekend should be; “I’m going to play so hard that I can’t wait to get back to work on Monday”

2. A quote from the movie “Vanilla Sky”  —  The quote is;  “There’s nothing bigger in life, is there?”

I really love this quote from Vanilla Sky.  I have to remind myself everyday I don’t need a storm to know “I’m alive.

See you tonight friends.  Day 245 here in Puerto Rico.  Scott Smith for Sammy & Family.

September 11th, 2015 — Night Post from a friend from England

Gill Griffith remembers where and what she was doing on September 11, 2001

Good evening friends.

Tonight we have a great friend of Sammy & Family’s, Gill Griffith from England shares her memories of first hearing of September 11th, 2001.

Before we share her story, let me just say Gill is an incredible friend and guardian to animals all over the world. She has personally rescued two stray dogs from Romania from an unspeakable horrors as we have written about in the past. She is very involved in animal rescue and welfare in many ways but that’s for another night.

Gill Griffith is a woman of compassion from head to toe. Let’s hear what she remembers about 9/11 when it happened.

I was living in Northern Ireland at the time.  A place synonymous with terrorism but what I was about to witness surpassed the bombings in Belfast. I was engrossed in a film on TV when it cut out and images of what looked like a burning building appeared on screen. I was miffed as the film was about to end and I missed it. But after curiously continuing to watch the images in front of me and listing to the information being conveyed to us, I sat in utter disbelief at this unbelievable occurrence.

I cannot for the life of me remember what film I was watching and am neither interested in how it ended. But I shall never forget those first images of that terrible tragedy.

Gill Thank you for sharing your memories of that unforgettable day with us.  Being I lived in NYC, I was very in tuned to what has happening just from being on the street trying to get home that day.  But once I got home and settled in that night, I was pinned to the news for a 2 straight months just as Gill described.  September 11th, 2001 was “The Pearl Harbor of 21st Century”  — It was unfathomable.

No lives will go in Vain, no pain will go unnoticed.  Amen.  Dr. Harp Seal for Sammy & Family.

September 11th, 2001 — A personal story

9/11 -- in 2015

Good morning friends.

Where I was on September 11th, 2001 — A personal story.

I know the whole world was tuned into what was happening from afar, but I will share the story from someone who lived and worked in NYC that day.

The Twin Towers were synonymous with New York City just like the Empire State building and they dominated the New York skyline. Those towers gave new meaning to the word “gigantic.” Anyone who stood in front of them and looked up was in complete awe.

The towers were built in the early 1970’s during which time my father was a commercial leasing broker in NYC up until his death in 1984. The developers of the towers invited many brokers to take a look at the palatial office space that was now available to companies for lease. When I went down there with my father I must have been 5 years old, that was 40 years ago and I can remember it vividly.

I remember walking up the stairs to the second floor to get the elevators to the observation deck at the top building. Even on the 2nd floor you can hear and feel all the wind flowing through the elevator shafts. There was a lot of purple carpet on the second floor waiting for those elevators. I guess that was a sign of the times or something. Anyway, I don’t remember going to the top that day, later on life I had made it to the top a couple of times.

Fast forward to 1994 when I interviewed with the company Cantor Fitzgerald who leased space on floors 101 through 105 in one of the towers. I had interviewed with a gentleman named Will Raub. He was a nice guy.  Despite me having no experience he recommended me to their training program. It turns out the training program did not hire me either. Will Raub along with 3000 other people from hundreds of companies throughout the two towers were killed on September 11th, 2001.

I will fast forward now to the morning of September 11, 2001. I was working midtown for another Wall Street firm on 47th street and 3rd avenue. When the first plane hit, we all said to each other it was a private plane, and while being a tragedy was not something to be alarmed about in terms of security. When the second plane hit the other tower, we knew life changed forever in an instant. Many of us were on the phone with other traders from Cantor Fitzgerald who were stuck at the the top of one of the towers. The things we were hearing and the decisions they had to make were incomprehensible. The head of the firm I worked for stood up and told us all to leave the building immediately and get on the street.

We were about 3 miles north of the twin towers to give you perspective. The thing was for me I lived only one mile from the World Trade Center and had to walk in that direction to get home. While I was walking South to get home, tens and tens of thousands of people were walking North to get out of the downtown area. Thousands were walking on bridges to get to into queens and Brooklyn.

Hardly anyone was walking towards downtown, but that’s where I lived, so I continued on. This was before smart phones existed mind you, so people were stopping in banks, and Charles Schwab offices to watch the news on their big screen TV’s to figure out what exactly happened. People were crowding around street vendors to listen to their radios for current news. Not in a million years did I or anyone think those towers would come down. It was literally unimaginable and unfathomable. But they did come down, and were completely destroyed. Three thousand people lost their lives in complete horror and shock.

When I finally got home my apartment smelled like burnt rubber tires. It was not possible to breath like that for too long. I packed up my stuff that night and stayed with a friend for two weeks on the Upper West Side. From there a signed a lease on the Upper East Side and never lived downtown again. That was 14 years ago today. (Just a heads up, this story was written in 2015)

And today, NYC has come back strong, real strong. There are twice as many people living down there then before 9/11 happened. We have the Freedom tower now at One World Trade Center. It is the tallest skyscraper in the Western Hemisphere. I will conclude with this, New York City will never be the same, and New York City has never been stronger.

No lives will go in vain, no pain will go unnoticed. Scott Smith for Sammy & Family.

David Ligon talks Suicide Prevention

23 year old, David Ligon talks Suicide Prevention

Good evening friends.

Today was Was “World Suicide Prevention Day”  — Sammy & Family’s great friend David Ligon speaks up about “Suicide Prevention”  — Before we hear from him, The Smith Family wants to applaud him and commend him for his first hand knowledge on this topic and his broad based research on “Suicide Prevention worldwide both near and far.  Let’s hear what he has to say below;

Hi. My name is David Ligon. I’m 23 years old and I’m from the Central Coast region of California. Anxiety and depression from loneliness have been recurring negative factors for a good majority of my life so far. I attended a local all-guys Catholic school called Palma, which covers 7th to 12th grades (public and private elementary schools around here cover from Kindergarten to 6th grades), and freshman year of high school was one of the worst years of both high school and my life.

Despite my best friend at the time transferring to another high school, I never thought that loneliness would actually be a huge issue for me, but I was wrong.  During that time, I had a really hot-headed, mean-spirited science teacher who never taught an actual lesson.  Instead, he chose to scream and berate the whole class the entirety of each period, which traumatizes me to this day. I didn’t have any friendships with anyone, and I ended up eating lunch practically every single day in one of the restroom stalls because I had absolutely no one to talk to, and I felt completely ashamed of myself for that.

It was around that time frame when I seriously contemplated on ending my life. The rest of high school, over time, actually got better for me. One of my classmates at the time, Joey DeSilva, actually invited me over to have lunch with his friends, and I actually somewhat felt like I had agroup to hang out with. It bummed me out when he transferred to another school out-of-town, but I didn’t leave empty-handed. I ended up hanging out with my younger brother Scott and his friends. During senior year of high school, I also ended up on having classes that I actually enjoyed and where teachers actually believed in me, which is why senior year of high school actually ended up being the best year of high school and one of the best years of my life.

I ended up going to a local community college in Fall of 2011, mainly because of financial reasons and the fact that my grandmother (dad’s mom) was already sick at the time. I had figured that possibly college might be a bit better than high school, and it somewhat was at first.

The classes were decent, as were the teachers. I actually almost ended up being actual friends with 2 people, but by the end of my 1st semester, those 2 people chose to end what could’ve been friendships with me, and that devastated me, even though I got really great grades. To sum up what happened the following semester, I had another failed attempt at making a friend and I was humiliated both by my classmates and one of my teachers/professors at the time. Grandma’s heath was worsening, and my relationship with my dad  was very low.

I felt that I had no one to talk with and trust again, and I  ended up avoiding anyone and everyone at college. I was truly  convinced that everyone just wants me to fail at everything. On the evening of Friday, May 18, 2012, I intentionally attempted to end my life, and I will not disclose how, only because I don’t want anyone to copy what I did. The next evening, I was hospitalized I spent the next day-and-a-half trying to recuperate. After that, I was transferred over to a psychiatric ward of another hospital that happened to be next to the local prison (it wasn’t in a safe part of town).

I was then evaluated by a therapist/specialist, and after that, I was finally sent home that afternoon. That was Monday, May 21, 2012.  A lot of things have happened since then. My science teacher from freshman year got fired because he actually threatening some student’s  mom. Grandma passed away on September 15, 2012. Our family dog, Sophie, passed away last month (August 10). My relationship with my dad is still very low. Earlier this year, I was diagnosed by my  therapist with having Social Anxiety Disorder. I’ve taken a hiatus from college, but have started my guitar lessons  writer, and I plan on writing more again very soon, because like music, writing has helped me at least make sense of the littlest of things.

Good evening friends from Sammy & Family on Sept 9th, 2015

Vane and Scott Wedding 2

Good evening friends.

It feels like a Friday to me, not sure why that is. Nonetheless, let me correct my thinking to Wednesday being that is where we are in the week.

I know this picture looks similar to last Friday’s picture, but its not, its close but no cigar.  Its more of a close up of Vanessa and I where you can see her kicking body, and where you can see this is the kind of guy that could Not break 1000 to the upside on his SAT’s… Lol, now i am beating that joke to death, or reality to death i should say.

OK, Vanessa and I, my sexy 47 year old wife, wanted to come wish everyone a great night and sweet dreams.  Today was a good day for the Smith Family.  A few people messed with my mother and sister, which to their defense is their job, and now, metaphorically speaking, they are standing upside down on their heads. I have a few simple rules in life.  I just want to make you laugh, but if anyone tries to hurt my dogs, or my family, who to be honest, I don’t even get along with all the time, you’re going to wish you just left us alone.

We are nice people, like porcupines you might say.  We will let you kick us 100 times. but on the 101th kick, there is a good shot you will be missing one of your legs.

Having said that, I really just want to hand out frozen Snickers for free, talking to complete strangers about light, dumb and breezy stuff, the dumber the better.  That’s all I want to do.  “Hi would you like a Snicker?”   — Actually i would not, no problem sir.  How about you mam, “Would you like a frozen Snicker ?”  — Actually I would, thank you.  “Well mam, here is your Snickers bar for free.”

My friends, that is Sammy & Family’s dreams.   Signing off from Puerto Rico on day 242, Dr. Harp Seal for Sammy & Family.

Just the Two of Us

The Love of my Life, Little Budski

Good morning friends.  Today we have me and the boy on  “The Good News Channel” — Vanessa snapped this candid picture and it felt like an instant classic.  So I will write a short story for my boy.

♫♫♫ You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make happy when skies are blue, you never know, dear, how much I love you, please don’t take my sunshine away ♫♫♫ — That song just popped in my head so I went with it.

And now this song just did too,  ♫♫♫ Just the two of us, we can make it if we try, Just the two of us,  just the two of us building castles in the sky, Just the two of us, you and I ♫♫♫

Sammy is my Soul-Mutt forever. The bond him and I have will echo for eternity.  And truth be told, i feel the same way about our other four other dogs as well.  But this post today is about my little Budski,, Buddy, or Budster, those are the three other names i call Sammy.  Most of the time its “Budski”

My boy stuck with me through think and thin, the big highs, the big lows, and at the times the big nothingness.  I miss him when I’m at the supermarket, i miss him when I’m getting a haircut, and I miss him when I’m sleeping.  Which reminds me of another song that Aerosmith sings;  ♫♫♫ Don’t wanna close my eyes, I don’t wanna fall asleep, ‘Cause I’d miss you baby and I don’t wanna miss a thing ♫♫♫

OK friends.  Day 242 here in Puerto Rico and I’m still playing Mr. Mom to 5 dogs all day while Vanessa goes to work.  Honestly I couldn’t be happier.  With that said, I will be taking over shortly. My gal needs a break and there is too much social media related stuff I still want to do.  I am like a sleeping giant if you will.

See you tonight friends.  Scott Smith for Sammy & Family.

Scott, just take another street

Car Flood in 1999, Jersey City, NJ

Good evening friends. After tallying up the all the votes from multiple pages it looks like number 2 took the cake. So onward we go.  The title of this story is; “Scott, Just Take Another Street”

The year was 1999 and was a very rainy day in Jersey City, NJ.  Jersey City is located right across the Hudson river from NYC.  When you are in Jersey City, you can see downtown Manhattan very clearly from across the river.  In the early 1990’s Jersey City was offering a lot of tax breaks for Wall Street firms to hop on over the Hudson River and work in NJ instead of NYC.

So Jersey City became another mini Wall Street right across the river.  If you lived in NYC, you would take the Path Train at the World Trade Center and within a few minutes you would be on the Jersey side.  In 1999 I lived In Edgewater NJ with my ex wife which was North of Jersey city.

On my way to work one morning during a rainstorm there was a Huge flood at the main intersection. Normally I would take a left and pull into the office building I worked in.  Jersey City had been known for their drainage problems for 40 plus years.  Feel free to do a Google check to verify.  Terrible draining problems in that area.

The thing is I’m pulling up to the intersection and I see 2 to 3 feet of water and I immediately stopped to access the situation.  I see a lot of cars backing up and heading to another street.  But at the same time I saw that Jeeps and buses managed to drive right through it.  Now I had a Lexus at the time which is pretty low to the ground as you know.  So the genius risk taker that I am said “Go For It” — So i approached the 2 to 3 feet of water with my car and this is where things got out of control.  Firstly, my car was immediately lifted off the ground and slightly floating in a circular motion.  The water started coming into my car like a title wave, yes inside the car.  I was freaking out.

The buses and SUV’s that drove by were literally sending wakes into my car just like boats would if they were passing by.  So the wakes were making my car spin quicker and more out of control.  Now the water has reached the window level of my car inside and outside where I could Not open the doors or get the windows down.  Circuits started blowing out, I smelled smoke everywhere. I was saying to myself; “I’m am going to drown to death or be electrocuted to death”  — As the panic set in further, I knew had had to take serious measures.  I started trying to kick the through the windows of my car. I was not able to kick through pressure of all the water on the other side of the windows.  Now I was doing the lightening fast memory flashback thing people do right before they die.

I almost felt relieved knowing I did everything I can but I was knew I was not getting out of this one. I had been a trader for several years at this point and my mind worked very fast.  And it said to me this trade called “Life” is over, you lose.

When I sat back to just let the water keep rising inside the car,  I looked up and forgot I had a sunroof in the midst of all the panicking.  So I slid the first layer back and then clicked the switch and for the love of God, the sunroof opened. That power had not got on out yet on the roof of the car.  Next thing you know I climbed through my sunroof and was standing on the top of my car.  The entire office from the 12th floor was looking down on their colleague standing on top of his car which was completely flooded by this point.  Now that i didn’t die, i was completely humiliated.

Next thing you know my assistant Alex pulls up in his SUV right next to my car, and I hopped on the roof of his jeep and he drove me out of the flooded intersection.   He said to me “Why didn’t you back up like all the other cars and just take the other street?”

I told him when I leased the car, the Lexus salesman said this car is great in all weather conditions. My assistant said to me “He didn’t mean 3 feet of water, he was referring to the seasons”

Moral of the story.  When you see a huge flood at a traffic light, just take another street even if it takes you an extra 10 minutes.  This was such a dumb decision that the insurance company almost rejected my claim. Having said that, sometimes stupidity works in your favor.  Taking into account the lease payments I made, the value of the car and the residual value, the insurance company actually had to cut me a check for $6000, yes, 6k.

I guess this is what they mean when they say, “Blissful Blindness”