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Good morning friends.

Dr. Harp Seal here. Day 409 in Puerto Rico. We have an interesting Post today.  The topic is the Fox hole friend versus other friends that make you laugh and you have fun with.

There’s an expression; “You find out who your real friends are in your darkest hours”  — Meaning the friends that would get into the fox hole with you when needed.  And that’s true. Most of us have friends like that.

But lets not discount the friends that might not get into the Fox hole with us. After all, life does not always put us in fox hole situations.  So what about the friends that in your daily life that make you happy and you have a fun with ? — Does that make them bad friends because they are Not the fox hole friends ?  The answer is No.

The friends you have fun with provide a great deal of joy in your life, that’s extremely important too. Here is the million dollar question ?   Can a Fox hole friend also be one of your fun and happy friends ? Absolutely yes.  Keep this in mind too, sometimes our fox hole friends that would jump in front of car for us, are also the people in everyday life that make us the most unhappy.  Meaning, we would kill for each other, but we don’t enjoy each other’s company or produce happiness when we’re together.

So Scott what is the point. The point is, the Non fox hole friends are just as important if they make you happy day to day.  I size up my friends not only by who will be there for me when things are bad, but also on who makes me happy when things are going OK.

Food of thought.  Have a great day friends.