Tonight’s topic is Separation and Divorce;

As time moves on I’ve been seeing more and more of my friends either separate or getting divorced. I would like to chime in here for anyone going through this right now.

I have been to that show a few times already. It can feel like your life is over and you will never be happy again. That is exactly how it felt for me.

Being “I made it through the rain” in the words of Barry Manilow, I want to share some comforting and practical thoughts with you.

Your life is not over, its in transition. Over 50 percent of marriages end in divorce, and those people moved on, right ? So what makes any of us think we can’t move on ? The answer to that is because when we are inside of a crisis, we can’t see our way out of the forest.

That is why it is critical to stay in touch with your family and friends who can see things objectively for you until your mental vision is restored.

Getting divorced is not the end, its just a delay. And when the delay is over, you get a new lease on life. Only this time, now that you weathered the storm, your life will exceed any expectations you used to have.

Welcome to a better life.

Dr. Harp Seal for Sammy & Family.